Archive for the 'Offspring' Category

Spare the rod, get your black card taken

Friday, June 20th, 2008

My latest column is up over at AntiRacist Parent.  And kudos to new ARP editor, Tami!

Separated at birth?

Wednesday, June 11th, 2008

Conversation today with BabyGirl (age 4.5):
BG: So, Mommy…your phone number is 412.XXX.XXXX?
Me: Yes.
BG: And my phone is…412.XXX.XXXX?
Me: Yes.
BG (face full of sheer delight): WE’RE TWINS!  High five, Mommy!

Love is…

Saturday, May 31st, 2008

…holding someone’s infant and saying, “She’s beautiful, generally speaking. But I do think a bonnet would help distract from that gi-normous dome of hers. And those ears…”
Polite, tactful people don’t say things like this, of course. But when you share your writing, or any art, with someone for feedback, it really is […]

“Girls Rock!”-ed

Wednesday, May 28th, 2008

You can also check out this review and related content over at 3BlackChicks and ShapingYouth.

A few months ago, I viewed the trailer for Girls Rock!, a documentary which chronicles a 5-day-long Rock ‘n Roll Camp for Girls in Portland, Oregon. At the camp, the girls form bands, write music, and ultimately perform for a […]

I’m Shaping Youth!

Wednesday, May 14th, 2008

How flattered am I that Amy Jussel at ShapingYouth.org decided to cross-post my AntiRacistParent column (Breaking the Color Code and Princess Power)?
ShapingYouth is a forum about media and marketing’s influence on kids, and is chock-full of great resources for parents and anyone interested in kids and consumer culture. Another such site is ParentsForEthicalMarketing.org/Corporate Babysitter. […]

Sun Tzu and Cinderella

Monday, May 12th, 2008

My latest column, The Princess Problem: “There’s More Than One Way of Being Pretty”, is up over at AntiRacistParent.  Toot-toot.

Best. Mama’s. Day. Gift. Ever.

Sunday, May 11th, 2008

Dear Mini-Me,
The tulips, delivered to my front door yesterday, were indeed wonderful.  Bright, fresh, and lovely.
The mini mylar balloon was cute.
The chocolates, which you and your little sister ate the majority of helped me eat, were heavenly.
But this afternoon, you topped yourself when you came bounding into my bedroom with a large collection of Dilbert […]

Mother no more

Wednesday, May 7th, 2008

My relationship with my late mother was a loving but rocky one. Not long ago, when I drafted a tribute to my grandmother, the wonderful editor who guided me through the revision of that essay pointed out major holes in the piece. These holes represented places where I hesitated to write anything remotely […]

Spanking black children and the legacy of slavery

Thursday, May 1st, 2008

Hat tip to JA at Wigger Lover
 
I read an excerpt of Patton’s book before it was released. I felt it to be a hard read, and so I haven’t gotten a copy (yet). Would love to hear from anyone who has finished it.
 
An interview with historian and writer Stacey Patton
conducted by […]

Good news and bad news

Monday, April 28th, 2008

Good news…I got into VONA!
Bad news…I was accepted for a different week and a different class than I requested. So I’m passing. Maybe next year…
Good news…We got all the planting done!
Bad news…The same little girls who have asked me daily for the past month, “Are we gardening TODAY???” pretty much bailed after an […]