THIS is sexism, Hillary
Girl, 12, told she can’t play ball with boys
You play ball like a girl.
That used to be an insult. In
“She scored 30 points,” Jaime’s mom, Reiko Williams, told The Oregonian. “I remember one play. She stole the ball, dribbled up court and made a behind-the-back pass to a teammate. He missed the lay-in, and she grabbed the rebound and put it in. I think it was just too much for some of those parents.
“The next day, she came home and said they wouldn’t let her play with the boys anymore.”
Last month, a group of parents from an opposing team told management at The Hoop, a private
“I never saw the rule,” said Abraham, who has coached basketball for 32 years.
“If I’d known about it, I wouldn’t have put any of my teams in the league. Besides, she’s been playing on this team since second grade, and she plays on our team when we travel around the region. There’s never been any problem in any event, not one word of complaint.”
Neal Franzer, The Hoop’s director of operations, told the paper that parents were “adamant” their complaints had nothing to do with Jaime’s skills.
“They said the problem was the boys were playing differently against her because she was a girl,” Franzer said, according to the paper. “They’d been taught to not push a girl, so they weren’t fouling her hard, and the focus had shifted from playing basketball to noticing a girl was on the floor with them.
“The rule may not have been enforced in past years,” Franzer said. “We have new management this year. It’s policy, and we enforce policy.”
Nared, however, had a different take.
“I think the boys on a specific team don’t like me,” she said. “It doesn’t seem fair.”
Abraham was also skeptical about the ruling.
“I can’t think of one boy that we’ve played against that’s had a problem with her,” he said. “Maybe their dads do. Teach the boys how to handle her. Front her, deny her the ball. You sure as hell don’t complain. Listen, she’s a girl’s girl, but she plays tough. She’s no cupcake. She gets knocked down and takes a charge.”


May 27th, 2008 at 12:46 pm
Surely this will correct itself, yes? Or am I one of those idealists that assume level-headed thinking will prevail amidst trumped up media coverage when in fact it could skate by on a technicality? eesh…I’m going to ping the Positive Coaching Alliance and see what THEY have to say about this debacle. Here’s my prior post about their org…surely they should have a ‘comment’? sigh. http://www.shapingyouth.org/blog/?p=295
Thanks for the heads up…I’ll ask Lisa at Girls Are Champions.org too…Wild.
May 27th, 2008 at 12:58 pm
Amy: I hope that as the story spreads, the organization will be compelled to reverse its decision. The saddest part is that it sounds like the parents have more problems with her playing than the boys themselves. But maybe that’s also the most hopeful part?
May 27th, 2008 at 9:43 pm
I’ll certainly spread this story. Do you remember that a book came out last year that claimed that by having separate but equal sports teams that we were dooming girls? Now to look it up…That girl has mad skills!
May 27th, 2008 at 10:21 pm
Veronica:
Thanks for the heads up! I wasn’t familiar with the book, but I found it:
Playing with the Boys: Why Separate is Not Equal in Sports by
Laura Pappano and Eileen McDonagh